Saturday, February 28, 2009

because love must spread


The past few days have not been easy on me. Many good intentions have sprouted irritation and sadness. Around me I find people so much involved in themselves that they cant see beyond their own wants and wishes. I see violence and greed.
Mercilessly a tree was chopped down in front of my house inside a private compound. People are talking about culling strays.

Women are facing extra repression. People are being penalised in the name of any difference: clothes, language, party or just for being in the wrong places.

My city is hotter than ever, treeless roads and uprooted trees stare at the vacant skies.

As a tarot reader, I see people wanting to be told only great things. Everyone wants the universe to do thier bidding. Even life's little problems seem unbearable to many. Discontent spreads.

Yesterday in the midst of the turmoil in my mind I went to a concert of Kabir's great poems. There the folk singer from the village of MP, Prahaladji mentioned how a kabir- sena to reform the world was impossible.

I woke up! There cannot be an army of love. Love by its very nature will not resist, attack or differentiate between us and them. Love will accept, not demand. Love will creep in to corners after plunderers have left. Love weeps with people, not for them. love walks with all. Love keeps loving not becoz of. Love keeps loving in spite of.
I pray that I get the courage to love. and keep awake my light in this rang mahal of mine. I surrender my discontent . The universe knows how to take care of itself. I am happy to join in Love!


Koi ke penge jhula De!
Rock me high on love's swing!

- a line from kabir's poem


Thursday, February 26, 2009

Wake up Bangalore!

It’s crazy but Bangalore is going medieval like the TV Soaps. We women are being told what we must wear or what we must not wear. We are asked not to go on the streets alone or unaccompanied. We cannot visit certain areas: pubs discos and places where “ muslim boys” will talk to us. We shall soon be asked to prove our chastity and our cultural identity.

Now Read this:

Taliban restrictions and mistreatment of women include these:

1- Complete ban on women's work outside the home, which also applies to female teachers, engineers and most professionals. Only a few female doctors and nurses are allowed to work in some hospitals in Kabul.

2- Complete ban on women's activity outside the home unless accompanied by a mahram (close male relative such as a father, brother or husband).

Welcome to Bengaluru!

3- Ban on women dealing with male shopkeepers.

4- Ban on women being treated by male doctors.

5- Ban on women studying at schools, universities or any other educational institution. (Taliban have converted girls' schools into religious seminaries.)

6- Requirement that women wear a long veil (Burqa), which covers them from head to toe.

Welcome To Bengaluru, We cant wear western outfits!

7- Whipping, beating and verbal abuse of women not clothed in accordance with Taliban rules, or of women unaccompanied by a mahram.

8- Whipping of women in public for having non-covered ankles.

http://www.hindu.com/2009/02/26/stories/2009022658410300.htm

Welcome to Bangalore and Mangalore!

9- Public stoning of women accused of having sex outside marriage. (A number of lovers are stoned to death under this rule).

Women walking with non related males will have to marry their male friend or tie a rakhi on Valentines day. Those in Pubs get beaten up.

10- Ban on the use of cosmetics. (Many women with painted nails have had fingers cut off).

Will come soon watch out! Lipstick is not sanathan Dharm!

11- Ban on women talking or shaking hands with non-mahram males.

That's the non-Hindu males

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/India/Karnataka-moral-cops-threaten-Hindu-girls-for-talkng-to-Muslim-boy/articleshow/4191804.cms

12- Ban on women laughing loudly. (No stranger should hear a woman's voice).

13- Ban on women wearing high heel shoes, which would produce sound while walking. (A man must not hear a woman's footsteps.)

14- Ban on women riding in a taxi without a mahram.

15- Ban on women's presence in radio, television or public gatherings of any kind.

16- Ban on women playing sports or entering a sport center or club.

Women should not go to Pubs

17- Ban on women riding bicycles or motorcycles, even with their mahrams.

18- Ban on women's wearing brightly colored clothes. In Taliban terms, these are "sexually attracting colors."

19- Ban on women gathering for festive occasions such as the Eids, or for any recreational purpose.

20- Ban on women washing clothes next to rivers or in a public place.

21- Modification of all place names including the word "women." For example, "women's garden" has been renamed "spring garden".

26- Ban on males and females traveling on the same bus. Public buses have now been designated "males only" (or "females only").

27- Ban on flared (wide) pant-legs, even under a burqa.

28- Ban on the photographing or filming of women.

29- Ban on women's pictures printed in newspapers and books, or hung on the walls of houses and shops.

Shocking? If we don’t do something soon This is where We Women in Bangalore, in karnataka will end up!

Raise your voice! This goes beyond a chaddi. Its time to raise a banner and voice our protest!